Unicorn tales: Platonic threesomes, ghosts of ghosted past, and the million-dollar hickey

If singledom couldn’t get any stranger, it does. While I navigate the small Vancouver dating pool it becomes apparent that my instincts are correct, and to much of what my dear witchy friends tell me, I will often take the plunge down YOLO lane. What are the results? Less than stellar, and sometimes leaving me …

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Cut the passion: why have I suddenly turned into a demisexual?

For many of my close friends and unfortunate family members witnessing me at the open house Christmas party, they can probably vouch that since I lost my virginity at eighteen I kind of spiralled into nympholand. Growing up in a square suburban town where your 100-person high school graduation class was pretty much everyone you …

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Can I add you? The dilemmas and perils of the friend request

How soon is too soon? It seems to be a question I don’t think much about when it comes to my online persona. You meet a guy, a girl, maybe they’re a regular customer at your work, or you met them out partying, whatever. Now, take that person and fast forward a week. This in …

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